Okay, lapang-lapangkan minda kita semua untuk jadi open-minded person based on this topic.
Recently, my teacher Ustaz Aimi who is teaching me Pendidikan Syariah Islamiah had organized a battle. Wow, dengar macam gempak kan?
Boys Vs Girls. Mostly like debate competition on "Polygamy". Pertandingan tertutup, melibatkan only my class members. Nanti kalau dihebahkan, penuh pula kelas tu dengan kehadiran audiences and spectators yang bersemangat memberi sokongan kepada pasukan pilihan.
Tak perlu beritahu, I guess semua orang pastinya tahu macam mana hangat this topic had been discussed.
The most interesting part was, boy's team kena bangkang poligami and vice versa. Normally, perempuan membangkang but this time kebiasaan itu diubah suai.
Me, myself tak sabar untuk melihat sendiri macam mana my friends, ( Girl's team ) melontarkan idea menyokong this topic walaupun kenyataannya semua tu bukan dari hati masing-masing. Lakonan semata-mata. Situation dalam kelas pun bertukar jadi gamat once they heard hujah-hujah yang bertentangan dengan pemikiran mereka but still can be controlled.
At the end, ustaz buat conclusion and gave us
( dedicated to female students ) some advices and tips.
Very useful for the future. :) Winner? Ustaz masih berteka-teki.
As for my opinion, poligami sering dikaitkan dengan faktor keadilan. Bila ada dua keluarga, then mulalah membeza-bezakan which family is better. Tak patut, tak patut. Apa pun, rasional itu penting.
Last from ustaz, dalam giliran boleh adil tapi tidak bagi hati dan perasaan sebab Rasulullah s.a.w sendiri lebih menyayangi Saidatina Khadijah r.a berbanding isteri-isterinya yang lain due to her high devotion for Islam until Saidatina Aisyah r.a cemburu. We have to understand that fact.
p/s : Saya bukan orang yang arif untuk membahaskan soal ini. Just to share the experience. In conclusion, kalau rasa diri tidak mampu untuk berlaku adil, don't ever play with the fire. Not only one side will feel the pain, but two. Think wisely.
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